When I was 8 months pregnant I discovered my partner was going to get “massages” aka happy ending ones. I was devastated and angry. I spent a lot of time digging through his details and found in four months he had spent thousands on this.
He went to therapy and said he was cured. But I still doubt him. This last weekend he went to Melbourne and came back with all his clothes laundered. He couldn’t explain why. I suspect he is back at it. Our baby is now 9 months old. Should I just walk as once a cheat always a cheat? Or should I not get hung up on this as according to him it means nothing ie he is not cheating, as not sex. For me it’s cheating as he chooses the girls, he wants someone to touch him. And it’s not like I don’t give him sex – even throughout my pregnancy I felt sexy and we had sex weekly.
Confused as to what I should do….