I hope you are well.
I was wondering if you can give me some advice if possible? It’s about a girl that I like and she is an escort. I have been seeing her for 2 months, we talk mainly and she does call me if she needs something like seeing a GP . I have kept distance with women all my life she is the first girl I got to be intimate with and I really like that we laugh and go for drives. Do you think if I show her how much she means to me one day she will consider being with me . I am an old fashioned guy, I want love, commitment and perhaps family one day. I know I’m asking her alot to give up her profession and be with me but I will support her and treat her like she deserves. Any advice you have I’ll be very greatful. I do like her and waiting patiently for one day to have her with me all the time as in not by hrs. Thank you so much.
Dear Mr Patient,
I can understand why you are falling in love with an escort – they are very lovable! However, I have bad news. Rarely do relationships between clients and escorts work, primarily due to the nature of how you met. Also rare is an escort giving up her work because she is asked to by a man. It’s lovely she sees you as a friend, although I would say boundaries are being blurred, which isn’t fair on you and is leading you on, especially if she knows your feelings towards her. Have an honest conversation with her. Her response will most likely give you the answers you are looking for.