I shot some nude female erotica over the years before meeting my current boyfriend. It was with other girls only and I stopped shooting a year before meeting him. We have been together for a year and it has been bothering me of late as to whether I need to tell him about this. The experience was positive, fun and empowering to me, albeit an immature decision because internet footage stays forever. I had been single over the years and it didn’t bother me. I’m concerned if one day one of his friends or relatives finds me online they would tell him, despite the material I did is not as “mainstream” so not as easy to come across.
A part of me want to keep this to myself because it’s in my past and is not relevant anymore. Another part wonders if this would make me a dishonest person. Although if he asks me I am prepared to tell the truth.
How serious do you think this is, is this a break-up worthy issue should he find out? Despite I didn’t cheat or lie?
Really appreciate any thoughts.