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Give Me Escorting Over Online Dating Apps Any Day

Give Me Escorting Over Online Dating Apps Any Day

I have a handsome, kind, funny male friend. He really would like to find love but there are certain rules to his dating game that quite frankly, have me stumped. They are: Never ask a woman for her number. Let her come to you. That way you know she’s keen and you...

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What Escorting Has Taught Me About Men

What Escorting Has Taught Me About Men

It’s no secret that when I was 37, I jumped ship from 9-5pm office life as a journalist, slipped into stockings and suspenders, and became a high class escort. If you’ve ever watched Billie Piper in A Secret Diary of a London Call Girl TV series, you’ll see why. I was...

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Michelle Bridges Needs Empathy, Not A Public Shaming

Michelle Bridges Needs Empathy, Not A Public Shaming

When I read Michelle Bridges had been done for drink driving with her five year-old son Axel in the back of the car, I felt sick. The Twitter trolls were quick to condemn, as they always are  - baying for her blood, bad mother tweets, irresponsible, selfish….for...

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Sober Is Sexier

Sober Is Sexier

There was a time, I wistfully recall, when my inbox was full of unsolicited dick pics, marriage proposals and intrigue about my job as an escort… Did I kiss? (Do I have to?) What was my strangest request? (Not as exciting as you think). What was the first time like?...

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Jobs Men Do And What It Means In The Bedroom: Part II

Jobs Men Do And What It Means In The Bedroom: Part II

A few weeks ago I wrote about how good a man was in bed depending on his job. It got a lot of attention and my inbox was flooded with messages from men informing me how ‘wild’ sales account managers were, or asking me what farmers were like. I even got an email from...

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What His Job Means For Your Sex Life

What His Job Means For Your Sex Life

Here’s a secret. Most women I meet, whether it be school mums, housewives or professionals, have confessed to me that at some point in their lives they’ve thought about being a ‘lady of the night.’ (By the way, 90 per cent of my jobs were in the day, but I digress..)...

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There Were Three In The Bed…

There Were Three In The Bed…

Last week I shattered your illusions by admitting the kind of action I got between the sheets as an escort was rather vanilla. Now I am going to surprise you again. When it comes to my own personal (non existent) love life, I am extremely traditional. I’ve never been...

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What Men Really Want In Bed

What Men Really Want In Bed

A few months ago, I had an evening out with a TV reality star (yes it was as painful as you can imagine) and when we were introduced, she looked at me incredulously and asked: “Are you some kind of PORN STAR?” The urge to fire back “Are you?” was overwhelming. Instead...

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Wife’s ‘Embarrassing’ Sex Request

Wife’s ‘Embarrassing’ Sex Request

His name was Paul. An accountant by trade, a husband and dad, and this particular afternoon in Sydney, he was my client. There was nothing out of the ordinary or remarkable about Paul — except his words when he handed over his fee. “This is from my wife,” he said,...

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We Are Stuck In Isolation And Driving Each Other Mad. Please Help!

My partner and I are stuck in isolation together and we are driving each other mad. How do we manage without killing each other?

Worrying Times

It’s worrying times at the moment with COVID-19 and I feel lonely and scared and my urge is to drink when I am trying to stay sober. What can I do? I really don’t want to deal with a hangover on top of everything else but I am struggling.

In Love Or Just Love Sex?

Every time I have sex with a guy, and the sex is good, I feel myself craving more and I don’t know if I am in love with the guy or his penis. I’ve put myself in emotionally painful relationships because of that and I only stay because of the sex, even though the guy is unstable/immature or emotionally unavailable. I really want to end this pattern because it’s literally ruining my life but not sure how to. Any advice?

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