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Ladies Over 40, Your Ship Hasn’t Sailed

Ladies Over 40, Your Ship Hasn’t Sailed

"Dear Samantha,  I am a 47 year-old single mum. Recently, a 26 year-old guy from my gym has been showing interest in me.  After a nasty separation, my confidence is at an all-time low. Surely a handsome young man who could have his pick out of all the gorgeous young...

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What His Job Means For Your Sex Life

What His Job Means For Your Sex Life

Here’s a secret. Most women I meet, whether it be school mums, housewives or professionals, have confessed to me that at some point in their lives they’ve thought about being a ‘lady of the night.’ (By the way, 90 per cent of my jobs were in the day, but I digress..)...

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There Were Three In The Bed…

There Were Three In The Bed…

Last week I shattered your illusions by admitting the kind of action I got between the sheets as an escort was rather vanilla. Now I am going to surprise you again. When it comes to my own personal (non existent) love life, I am extremely traditional. I’ve never been...

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What Men Really Want In Bed

What Men Really Want In Bed

A few months ago, I had an evening out with a TV reality star (yes it was as painful as you can imagine) and when we were introduced, she looked at me incredulously and asked: “Are you some kind of PORN STAR?” The urge to fire back “Are you?” was overwhelming. Instead...

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Wife’s ‘Embarrassing’ Sex Request

Wife’s ‘Embarrassing’ Sex Request

His name was Paul. An accountant by trade, a husband and dad, and this particular afternoon in Sydney, he was my client. There was nothing out of the ordinary or remarkable about Paul — except his words when he handed over his fee. “This is from my wife,” he said,...

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My Juiciest Secret Working In The Escorting Business

My Juiciest Secret Working In The Escorting Business

Another bloody sex column, right? You’re here to read the important stuff — politics, business, the way the world works. What has sex got to do with news? I’m going to let you in on a little secret. The whole world is about sex. Politics is about sex. Business is...

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Sex Work Isn’t Dangerous, Violent Men Are

Sex Work Isn’t Dangerous, Violent Men Are

So far, as details unfold of the two victims from Tuesday’s horrific knife rampage in Sydney, we know one was a woman who was stabbed in the back while walking in the city. And we are being told the other victim, who died, was 24-year-old female escort Michaela Dunn....

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5 Traits Of Very Wealthy Men

5 Traits Of Very Wealthy Men

As a high class escort, and a single woman, I’ve been the subject of bullying, harassment, sobbing at police stations (and later at court). I’ve been spoken to rudely, lied to and walked out on dinner dates  - mostly in my single ‘real’ life than my working one. “Shut...

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Sugar Babes Aint So Sweet

Sugar Babes Aint So Sweet

As a high class escort, I have to say I am pretty open minded. I’ve had clients ask to me wear red latex, bark like a Jack Russell (yes they specified the dog breed) and kick them with my stilettos. I’ve had men sob on my shoulder, confess to me things they ‘would...

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The Five Things Your Husband Tells An Escort

The Five Things Your Husband Tells An Escort

Ahhh men. I do love them. I also love dogs and I have three:  a goofy Irish Wolfhound and two little terriers. And the most startling thing is, men are a bit like my dogs. Eager to please, respond well to training, they try to hump most things, if you chase them, they...

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We Are Stuck In Isolation And Driving Each Other Mad. Please Help!

My partner and I are stuck in isolation together and we are driving each other mad. How do we manage without killing each other?

Worrying Times

It’s worrying times at the moment with COVID-19 and I feel lonely and scared and my urge is to drink when I am trying to stay sober. What can I do? I really don’t want to deal with a hangover on top of everything else but I am struggling.

In Love Or Just Love Sex?

Every time I have sex with a guy, and the sex is good, I feel myself craving more and I don’t know if I am in love with the guy or his penis. I’ve put myself in emotionally painful relationships because of that and I only stay because of the sex, even though the guy is unstable/immature or emotionally unavailable. I really want to end this pattern because it’s literally ruining my life but not sure how to. Any advice?

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