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More Surprising Things Men Like In Bed

More Surprising Things Men Like In Bed

I’ve always had a high sex drive, so dipping my toe into the adult industry was a no-brainer for me. No more vanilla sex! Instead I’d be wearing head to toe latex, a regular at all the swinger’s clubs.. Oh how wrong I was. How very wrong.   After almost a...

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The Secrets You Want To Know From An Escort, Revealed

The Secrets You Want To Know From An Escort, Revealed

I am writing this from a beautiful yoga retreat on the south coast of Sydney where I am taking a break from my job, my clients, my daily humdrum and from being Samantha. I haven’t washed my hair for three days and the only makeup I bought with me was my eyebrow...

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Lovin’ All Year Round

Lovin’ All Year Round

Here’s a secret: I hate Valentine’s Day. The big red balloons, the restaurants that triple the price, the ridiculously expensive flowers (even servos jack up the prices of their crummy gerberas). And ok, ok, I have spent many a Valentine’s Day alone - in fact the last...

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What Kinds Of Men See Sex Workers?

What Kinds Of Men See Sex Workers?

Every type of man sees sex workers. Normal, very every day, conservative men. Bosses, husbands, brothers, work colleagues… From tradies to CEOs, bankers to carers, men in wheelchairs to athletes, from 20-80 years old. What I’ve learnt in my 10 years as...

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What Men Want In Bed – The Answer May Shock You

What Men Want In Bed – The Answer May Shock You

The two things I get asked all the time about my job as a high-class escort (except how much money I make, which of course a lady never reveals, and yes I pay tax..) are: how can you be intimate with ‘ugly’ men, and what do men like in bed? Firstly, what is ‘ugly’ to...

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Mistress – Being The Other Woman

Mistress – Being The Other Woman

When Kerri-Anne Hamilton went public about her decade long affair with the late Dean Jones, she was predictably met with the fury of the public, no doubt incensed wives who were triggered. Of course their husband would never have an affair, they have a good marriage,...

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8 Ways To Tell If Your Partner Is Cheating

8 Ways To Tell If Your Partner Is Cheating

A common question that I get asked often is, "How do I know if my partner is cheating?" First of all I want to say, not all men cheat. Secondly, I want to say that a lot do. (A lot of women cheat as well, but we are talking about men here). As an escort, and having...

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Ladies Over 40, Your Ship Hasn’t Sailed

Ladies Over 40, Your Ship Hasn’t Sailed

"Dear Samantha,  I am a 47 year-old single mum. Recently, a 26 year-old guy from my gym has been showing interest in me.  After a nasty separation, my confidence is at an all-time low. Surely a handsome young man who could have his pick out of all the gorgeous young...

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The Dos and Don’ts of Intimacy During A Pandemic

The Dos and Don’ts of Intimacy During A Pandemic

We know all about the economy, essential services, travel bans and getting fined for sitting on a park bench, but what about sex during enforced isolation?  Some of us (ahem..) see intimacy as an essential service, pretty bloody essential actually, but for those...

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Why Men Are Reaching Out Amid COVID-19

Why Men Are Reaching Out Amid COVID-19

As if having one phone isn’t annoying enough, I have three. One is my personal phone; the other two are my escort phones. And for those who have no idea, the escorting industry is usually quite predictable – busy during the weekdays, quieter at weekends. School...

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We Are Stuck In Isolation And Driving Each Other Mad. Please Help!

My partner and I are stuck in isolation together and we are driving each other mad. How do we manage without killing each other?

Worrying Times

It’s worrying times at the moment with COVID-19 and I feel lonely and scared and my urge is to drink when I am trying to stay sober. What can I do? I really don’t want to deal with a hangover on top of everything else but I am struggling.

In Love Or Just Love Sex?

Every time I have sex with a guy, and the sex is good, I feel myself craving more and I don’t know if I am in love with the guy or his penis. I’ve put myself in emotionally painful relationships because of that and I only stay because of the sex, even though the guy is unstable/immature or emotionally unavailable. I really want to end this pattern because it’s literally ruining my life but not sure how to. Any advice?

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