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More Surprising Things Men Like In Bed

More Surprising Things Men Like In Bed

I’ve always had a high sex drive, so dipping my toe into the adult industry was a no-brainer for me. No more vanilla sex! Instead I’d be wearing head to toe latex, a regular at all the swinger’s clubs.. Oh how wrong I was. How very wrong.   After almost a...

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Why My Job As An Escort Is Hard To Leave

Why My Job As An Escort Is Hard To Leave

To those who don’t know my story, I was a journalist who, at the age of 37, walked out of my 9-5pm and my long-term relationship, and became a high-class escort. Ok, that’s fast forwarding a bit. I left my relationship, was single for a year and then I realised...

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What Qualities Make A Good Escort?

What Qualities Make A Good Escort?

There is a price to pay for being a public (happy and free) escort. Relationships are hard (mainly because I don’t want one), it can be a lonely and isolating life, and judgment still exists.   I understand my choices are hard to understand, but it’s...

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Why The Word ‘Prostitute’ Has To Go

Why The Word ‘Prostitute’ Has To Go

There’s been a lot of talk recently about the shady sexual goings on in Parliament House. A staffmember committed a lewd act on a desk and there are reports of sex workers being booked for Godknows what with God knows who. Except the media didn’t call them sex...

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Why Clients Are Nicer Than Boyfriends

Why Clients Are Nicer Than Boyfriends

I received a beautiful bunch of flowers this week (and there wasn’t a gerbera or carnation in sight). The card read: “Samantha, it’s been six beautiful years to the day since we met. Thank you for seeing me through the ups and downs of life, love Professor...

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The Rise Of The Cougar

The Rise Of The Cougar

“Once you’ve had a woman, you can never go back to a girl.” These were the words uttered by a 22-year-old architect client recently, who I was lucky enough to spend a few hours with. (His unsuspecting dad gives him a monthly allowance for his bills...) He also said...

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Why Marriage Is Outdated

Why Marriage Is Outdated

With almost half of marriages ending in divorce, why bother?  I came close to getting married once. He was a paparazzi photographer in London, I was the ambitious young reporter. He took me away on safari in Kenya and one night, under the sparkly...

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The Secrets You Want To Know From An Escort, Revealed

The Secrets You Want To Know From An Escort, Revealed

I am writing this from a beautiful yoga retreat on the south coast of Sydney where I am taking a break from my job, my clients, my daily humdrum and from being Samantha. I haven’t washed my hair for three days and the only makeup I bought with me was my eyebrow...

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We Are Stuck In Isolation And Driving Each Other Mad. Please Help!

My partner and I are stuck in isolation together and we are driving each other mad. How do we manage without killing each other?

Worrying Times

It’s worrying times at the moment with COVID-19 and I feel lonely and scared and my urge is to drink when I am trying to stay sober. What can I do? I really don’t want to deal with a hangover on top of everything else but I am struggling.

In Love Or Just Love Sex?

Every time I have sex with a guy, and the sex is good, I feel myself craving more and I don’t know if I am in love with the guy or his penis. I’ve put myself in emotionally painful relationships because of that and I only stay because of the sex, even though the guy is unstable/immature or emotionally unavailable. I really want to end this pattern because it’s literally ruining my life but not sure how to. Any advice?

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