Here’s a secret: I hate Valentine’s Day. The big red balloons, the restaurants that triple the price, the ridiculously expensive flowers (even servos jack up the prices of their crummy gerberas). And ok, ok, I have spent many a Valentine’s Day alone - in fact the last...

Every type of man sees sex workers. Normal, very every day, conservative men. Bosses, husbands, brothers, work colleagues… From tradies to CEOs, bankers to carers, men in wheelchairs to athletes, from 20-80 years old. What I’ve learnt in my 10 years as...

The two things I get asked all the time about my job as a high-class escort (except how much money I make, which of course a lady never reveals, and yes I pay tax..) are: how can you be intimate with ‘ugly’ men, and what do men like in bed? Firstly, what is ‘ugly’ to...

When Kerri-Anne Hamilton went public about her decade long affair with the late Dean Jones, she was predictably met with the fury of the public, no doubt incensed wives who were triggered. Of course their husband would never have an affair, they have a good marriage,...

A common question that I get asked often is, "How do I know if my partner is cheating?" First of all I want to say, not all men cheat. Secondly, I want to say that a lot do. (A lot of women cheat as well, but we are talking about men here). As an escort, and having...

"Dear Samantha,  I am a 47 year-old single mum. Recently, a 26 year-old guy from my gym has been showing interest in me.  After a nasty separation, my confidence is at an all-time low. Surely a handsome young man who could have his pick out of all the gorgeous young...

We know all about the economy, essential services, travel bans and getting fined for sitting on a park bench, but what about sex during enforced isolation?  Some of us (ahem..) see intimacy as an essential service, pretty bloody essential actually, but for those...

As if having one phone isn’t annoying enough, I have three. One is my personal phone; the other two are my escort phones. And for those who have no idea, the escorting industry is usually quite predictable – busy during the weekdays, quieter at weekends. School...

Times are tough. There is unease and fear at the possible ramifications as COVID-19 sweeps the country. Not only are we worried about our elderly and sick, but also the financial stress as small businesses and sole traders suffer. And that includes sex workers....