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Mistress – Being The Other Woman
When Kerri-Anne Hamilton went public about her decade long affair with the late Dean Jones, she was predictably met with the fury of the public, no doubt incensed wives who were triggered. Of course their husband would never have an affair, they have a good marriage,...
8 Ways To Tell If Your Partner Is Cheating
A common question that I get asked often is, "How do I know if my partner is cheating?" First of all I want to say, not all men cheat. Secondly, I want to say that a lot do. (A lot of women cheat as well, but we are talking about men here). As an escort, and having...
Ladies Over 40, Your Ship Hasn’t Sailed
"Dear Samantha, I am a 47 year-old single mum. Recently, a 26 year-old guy from my gym has been showing interest in me. After a nasty separation, my confidence is at an all-time low. Surely a handsome young man who could have his pick out of all the gorgeous young...
The Dos and Don’ts of Intimacy During A Pandemic
We know all about the economy, essential services, travel bans and getting fined for sitting on a park bench, but what about sex during enforced isolation? Some of us (ahem..) see intimacy as an essential service, pretty bloody essential actually, but for those...
Why Men Are Reaching Out Amid COVID-19
As if having one phone isn’t annoying enough, I have three. One is my personal phone; the other two are my escort phones. And for those who have no idea, the escorting industry is usually quite predictable – busy during the weekdays, quieter at weekends. School...
Coronavirus Is Hitting The Adult Industry Hard
Times are tough. There is unease and fear at the possible ramifications as COVID-19 sweeps the country. Not only are we worried about our elderly and sick, but also the financial stress as small businesses and sole traders suffer. And that includes sex workers....
Give Me Escorting Over Online Dating Apps Any Day
I have a handsome, kind, funny male friend. He really would like to find love but there are certain rules to his dating game that quite frankly, have me stumped. They are: Never ask a woman for her number. Let her come to you. That way you know she’s keen and you...
What Escorting Has Taught Me About Men
It’s no secret that when I was 37, I jumped ship from 9-5pm office life as a journalist, slipped into stockings and suspenders, and became a high class escort. If you’ve ever watched Billie Piper in A Secret Diary of a London Call Girl TV series, you’ll see why. I was...
Michelle Bridges Needs Empathy, Not A Public Shaming
When I read Michelle Bridges had been done for drink driving with her five year-old son Axel in the back of the car, I felt sick. The Twitter trolls were quick to condemn, as they always are - baying for her blood, bad mother tweets, irresponsible, selfish….for...
Sober Is Sexier
There was a time, I wistfully recall, when my inbox was full of unsolicited dick pics, marriage proposals and intrigue about my job as an escort… Did I kiss? (Do I have to?) What was my strangest request? (Not as exciting as you think). What was the first time like?...
Q&A
We Are Stuck In Isolation And Driving Each Other Mad. Please Help!
My partner and I are stuck in isolation together and we are driving each other mad. How do we manage without killing each other?
Worrying Times
It’s worrying times at the moment with COVID-19 and I feel lonely and scared and my urge is to drink when I am trying to stay sober. What can I do? I really don’t want to deal with a hangover on top of everything else but I am struggling.
In Love Or Just Love Sex?
Every time I have sex with a guy, and the sex is good, I feel myself craving more and I don’t know if I am in love with the guy or his penis. I’ve put myself in emotionally painful relationships because of that and I only stay because of the sex, even though the guy is unstable/immature or emotionally unavailable. I really want to end this pattern because it’s literally ruining my life but not sure how to. Any advice?