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What Qualities Make A Good Escort?

What Qualities Make A Good Escort?

There is a price to pay for being a public (happy and free) escort. Relationships are hard (mainly because I don’t want one), it can be a lonely and isolating life, and judgment still exists.   I understand my choices are hard to understand, but it’s...

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Why The Word ‘Prostitute’ Has To Go

Why The Word ‘Prostitute’ Has To Go

There’s been a lot of talk recently about the shady sexual goings on in Parliament House. A staffmember committed a lewd act on a desk and there are reports of sex workers being booked for Godknows what with God knows who. Except the media didn’t call them sex...

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Why Clients Are Nicer Than Boyfriends

Why Clients Are Nicer Than Boyfriends

I received a beautiful bunch of flowers this week (and there wasn’t a gerbera or carnation in sight). The card read: “Samantha, it’s been six beautiful years to the day since we met. Thank you for seeing me through the ups and downs of life, love Professor...

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The Rise Of The Cougar

The Rise Of The Cougar

“Once you’ve had a woman, you can never go back to a girl.” These were the words uttered by a 22-year-old architect client recently, who I was lucky enough to spend a few hours with. (His unsuspecting dad gives him a monthly allowance for his bills...) He also said...

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Why Marriage Is Outdated

Why Marriage Is Outdated

With almost half of marriages ending in divorce, why bother?  I came close to getting married once. He was a paparazzi photographer in London, I was the ambitious young reporter. He took me away on safari in Kenya and one night, under the sparkly...

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The Secrets You Want To Know From An Escort, Revealed

The Secrets You Want To Know From An Escort, Revealed

I am writing this from a beautiful yoga retreat on the south coast of Sydney where I am taking a break from my job, my clients, my daily humdrum and from being Samantha. I haven’t washed my hair for three days and the only makeup I bought with me was my eyebrow...

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Lovin’ All Year Round

Lovin’ All Year Round

Here’s a secret: I hate Valentine’s Day. The big red balloons, the restaurants that triple the price, the ridiculously expensive flowers (even servos jack up the prices of their crummy gerberas). And ok, ok, I have spent many a Valentine’s Day alone - in fact the last...

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What Kinds Of Men See Sex Workers?

What Kinds Of Men See Sex Workers?

Every type of man sees sex workers. Normal, very every day, conservative men. Bosses, husbands, brothers, work colleagues… From tradies to CEOs, bankers to carers, men in wheelchairs to athletes, from 20-80 years old. What I’ve learnt in my 10 years as...

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What Men Want In Bed – The Answer May Shock You

What Men Want In Bed – The Answer May Shock You

The two things I get asked all the time about my job as a high-class escort (except how much money I make, which of course a lady never reveals, and yes I pay tax..) are: how can you be intimate with ‘ugly’ men, and what do men like in bed? Firstly, what is ‘ugly’ to...

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Mistress – Being The Other Woman

Mistress – Being The Other Woman

When Kerri-Anne Hamilton went public about her decade long affair with the late Dean Jones, she was predictably met with the fury of the public, no doubt incensed wives who were triggered. Of course their husband would never have an affair, they have a good marriage,...

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We Are Stuck In Isolation And Driving Each Other Mad. Please Help!

My partner and I are stuck in isolation together and we are driving each other mad. How do we manage without killing each other?

Worrying Times

It’s worrying times at the moment with COVID-19 and I feel lonely and scared and my urge is to drink when I am trying to stay sober. What can I do? I really don’t want to deal with a hangover on top of everything else but I am struggling.

In Love Or Just Love Sex?

Every time I have sex with a guy, and the sex is good, I feel myself craving more and I don’t know if I am in love with the guy or his penis. I’ve put myself in emotionally painful relationships because of that and I only stay because of the sex, even though the guy is unstable/immature or emotionally unavailable. I really want to end this pattern because it’s literally ruining my life but not sure how to. Any advice?

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