My partner and I have been talking about having a threesome. We are thinking of using a professional escort, so the boundaries are clear. What are the pros and cons?
Dear Curious Couple,
Ask any escort and most will tell you their favourite clients are couples. They’re fun, exciting, and we spend half the time nattering away to the woman about love, life and lipstick. But it’s not all fun and roses. Sometimes, one person might not want to be there and doing it for the sake of their partner (in which case a professional will likely leave if she sense that..), or someone gets jealous etc etc. Things CAN go wrong so it is best to plan and prepare to avoid a piss-poor performance!
Firstly, take your time in choosing the right playmate. Find one that is happy to see couples (not all are).
Be very clear about your boundaries. What is allowed? What will make you run for the hills? Is he allowed to kiss? Have a think about what you both want to get out of this. Seeking a professional is a lot safer than picking someone up from a bar or jumping into bed with a good friend. A professional will leave at the end of your session and you will never have to see or speak to them again (unless you want to).
The only con I can think of is that it is not what you both want, or that someone enjoys it more or less. Opening up your bedsheets to a stranger can be a risky thing to do, so make sure it is 110% what you BOTH want.
Sam xx
